Core answer
A proposal to examine
Most of our exhaustion in relationships comes from managing a web of undefined and often conflicting expectations. We expect others to behave as we want, and they expect the same from us, leading to constant friction and disappointment. This workshop proposes that relationships are not meant to be "managed." They are meant to be recognized (पहचानना) and fulfilled (निर्वाह करना). It identifies definite relationships (like parent-child, friends, partners) and the inherent, universal values (मूल्य) within them, such as Trust (विश्वास), Respect (सम्मान), Gratitude (कृतज्ञता), and Affection (स्नेह). These values are not arbitrary; they are the natural expectation of every human Jeevan (consciousness). When we understand and live with these values, the need for "management" dissolves. Fulfillment becomes effortless. For example, trust is the assurance about the other human beings fundamental-intention. Once I can see this and ensure this for the other, trust becomes the stable foundation.
ReflectionSo, the question shifts from "How do I manage this person?" to "Do I understand the inherent values in this relationship and am I able to fulfill them?"